That's the Last Time...

I met my BFF during our 1st semester in College. We've been attached since. Anyway, we had a class with this guy that she was totally diggin'. He was a funny, smart guy, so I totally got it. I used my magic powers (the power of persuasion) to get her to tell him how she felt. We saw the signs, unfortunately they were simply friendly signs. He liked her, but only as a friend. OUCH! She told me how it went, and I felt awful. How were we (mostly me) so wrong in this situation? I was so embarrassed for her. When we got back from break, he didn't treat her any differently so everything went back to normal... until Junior year. I had this huge thing for one of our mutual friends (not the same guy). All of the signs that he liked me back were there. She used her magical powers to get me to tell him how I felt. We were at my sister's apartment during Fall Break, and she told me to text him. He texted me some of the nicest things, then I saw the word "SISTER". I swear to you, I felt so sick and embarrassed. I felt how she felt. She wasn't doing it to get back at me, we genuinely felt like he liked me back. It turns out that his love language is touch and words of affirmation. GO FREAKING FIGURE! I apologized again for making her tell our friend from Freshman year. That was the last time I pushed her to tell anyone anything. She's now in a relationship with the perfect guy for her. He's a great guy! Best Friend Stamp of Approval. I, on the other hand, am #selflovinit. I also don't read into things anymore. I just treat signs as signs of friendship. I need direct complete sentences. LOL!

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